Happiness Redefined...

Hi all,

Now blogging from my friends' home.. 6 of ma frnds r stayin here - Sath, Koli, Venki, Vineeth, Saagar, Rabbit... And Rite now Koli is near me browsin Facebook... So now let me go into what I intend to write...

I had this conviction that having more number of friends will make me happy... for if one frnd doesn't care, we do have another to pass time... But of late I feel that having too many is difficult to maintain as well... And its natural tat frndship with gals had made me feel happy... But again of late I realize tat frndship with gals can't last long for they get married soon and they naturally move away from u... Simply to argue, it may be said tat frndship'll never cease to exist... But the frndly and natural behaviour tat we had with gals in college time cannot be extended after tat... Still the culture in India and parent's mentality has not changed... It is often uncommon to go to a gal's house and chat for a long time and if tat happens, ppl start believing tat they r in love...

Actually It often becomes difficult to mark the boundary of love and friendship... In a friendship with a gal, love exists... But as a matter of fact, u can't love or propose ur frnd... If U do so, most probably the frndship breaks - which becomes virtually impossible to make up... And if it succeeds, U remain happy...

The best way to remain happy is tat U don't propose ur frnd... :) The concept of making frndship with a gal, and then proposing her fails on most occasions... Sometimes U can't do it for fearing the frndship ll break... And under this circumstance U really got to be very careful... It often becomes a Make Or Break trial :) And the worst insult U'll ever face is when U want to make a broken frndship... (I mean the frndship which is broken upon proposing)...

So let me put it simply tat U carry an attitude with u - Never respect or try to think of the person who was ur frnd, and eventually U loved... Be determined to pick up someone else... One more way to escape this is U don't really befriend any gal to tat extent tat U want to care her specially... Happiness - I relate it with frnds becoz wen a spl frnd neglects u, U feel depressed... In tat way I have experiences and heard from others too.... So one way U can be happy is to make sure tat U don't expect much from ur frnds and then cry tat they didn't meet up to ur expectations...

Most films have set a trend tat only guyz shd run back of gals and after too much of a try, she ll finally accept the love.. But as a matter of fact, gals never express their love in the first place and they don't disclose their crush too... It shows they r not brave enuf and all tat they want is to lead a settled life tat their parents ll arrange them... So To be happy, U simply have to make urself happy by lessening ur expectations - Of course U can't restrict anything, still as a sine wave I find myself happy on some occasions and heavily depressed at other times... And often the cause of depression is some spl frnd not meeting up my expectations... And my q is tat Y is a gal becomin such a spl frnd?? Its better U attach less importance to such people tat ll keep u everlastingly happy......